THAT
WE MAY BE ABLE!
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Cor 1:3-4
3
Blessed
be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and
the God of all comfort;
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Who
comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able
to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves
are comforted of God.
John
11:32-35
32
Then
when Mary was come where Jesus was, and saw him, she fell down at his feet,
saying unto him, Lord, if thou hadst been here, my brother had not died.
33
When
Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the Jews also weeping which came with her,
he groaned in the spirit, and was troubled,
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And
said, Where have ye laid him? They said unto him, Lord, come and see.
35
Jesus wept.
God
allows pain
into our lives that we might be able to minister to others in their trouble –
any trouble. The more pain we bear the better qualified we are to assist those
who suffer. We can relate to their pain by remembering our own. We can soothe
their hurts because we can remember that God soothed ours. We can encourage
because we have experience in overcoming.
Coming
to the tomb of Lazarus, Jesus encounters deep grief. He even suffers
Mary’s accusing comment: “if thou hadst been here, my brother had not died.” It
was the same as saying that Jesus killed Lazarus by delaying His arrival. Those
whose calling is to provide comfort have felt this stinging accusation from
time to time. We were too late or too inept to keep the pain from happening.
Now all we can do is apply ointment.
But
wounded people are not aware of how deeply the comforters feel their
grief. Jesus wept! He shed tears because He assumed the feelings of those to
whom He ministered. Like a sponge soaking up a spill, Jesus absorbed their
tears and they spilled out His own eyes. I would guess He is still doing that
today.
Heb
4:15-16
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For
we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our
infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.
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Let
us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain
mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.